Wedding Party
Lately, weekend means wedding invitation for me. And lately, wedding has been the most spoken word on my daily conversation around-—or I may say that I guess it become the hottest issue for twenty something people regarding to that bla bla blahs quarter life crisis theory—- and even as the most annoying common irritating question theme by those who had been into marriage a.k.a parents and even coupled neighbors *d*mn you, yes I’m single-- so what?!?!*
Urgh, I just don’t get why this “So darling, when will you get married?” was become the most favorite line for mocking us—as if they pretend not to know that it being the most irritating question for us—single twenty something person who’s still learn to see the world! Oh yes, that question was such a biggest fear for us to be asked! WTF!
One thing I’ve learned from my pal was; if you are being asked with that question, just simply answer… MAY. MAY be soon, MAY be later. Hahaha!
Speaking about the wedding, I met some of my high school mates last Wednesday. With a cup of coffee and cigars in an uproar France atmosphere wanna be café afterhours, a friend of mine who’s been engaged since she was in college told us about her wedding plan. Asking her when she would get married, she answered, “Well, I won’t tell you when I’m married. You’ll know soon after I get married. I mean— I wouldn’t have a wedding party. I just want to have a simple marriage ceremony; no wedding party in particular. I would only invite my closest colleagues and wouldn’t tell anybody—guess that wedding party is not that important for me—“
Some of my other friends have their own unique wedding party dream. Wedding party in a lovely strawberry garden, in a football field, in Mecca, or even bungee jumping wedding *maann, it’s too much, hahaha!*.
Well, about me, humm… Wedding spot? Oh, it could be arranged later. Wedding day? Oh, okay… it will be confirmed later, just hold on. Wedding dress? Oh, my talented fashion designer friend would design it especially for me. Wedding invitation card… Oh, well… helloo… I’m a graphic designer—sure I’ll do design it by myself. Wedding decoration… Oh dear you guys from interior design, product design and fine art… I believe in your perfect talent!(yuhuuuu…hahaha). Wedding singer? Oh, yes… my high school pal celebrity Mario Kahitna would handle it (for your information, I’ve asked him already! Hahahaha…). Huummm, what else? Did I forget something? I beg your pardon? What?? Oops… I missed… the BRIDEGROOM!!!!! I haven’t prepared my bridegroom yet!
Hahaha.
So... what about you?
ilmaffectional
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5 Comments:
i'm not trying to mock you, but I'll be a wife next two weeks :). sad to hear that you'll miss my ceremony :(
emang selalu menjadi topik setiap hari kehidupan orang orang - 'umur tanggung-kerjaan tanggung-mau mandiri-tapi dikejar kejar suruh kawin sama orantuanya' ... apa sudah gak masuk ke wilayah itu lagi ?
hmmmm, this has been on my mind a lot lately. i've been close to being married--and felt i met someone whom would have made a great person to spend my life with-but for some unknown reason, things just get in the way. so-i say wait until you just know this person is right for you. hopefully they will be your best friend-and more. you'll find him-and if you don't--he'll find you...right? so-just go on living, being yourself, growing as a person, and when the time is right, life will fall into place---it always does.
hope you are doing well---i would invite you over for a movie-but the traffic is terrible...maybe tomorrow. hahaha
Hahaha, iya, emang lagi trendnya il nikah muda. Jaman skarang orang umur 22 udah kebelet kawin aje.. eh temen kita ada lagi tuh yg mo kawinan juli diundang ga lu?
Whoaa, ini syapa yaw, kok anonymous lagi siii.. sapa lagi nih juli ini?
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